Developing a comfortable pencil grip for your child
At the outset, we would like to begin by making it clear that there's no one correct way to hold a pencil; every child has the freedom to write with any pencil grip, so long as they are comfortable with it. Research shows that pencil grip doesn't affect your child's handwriting or legibility.
Over the years, as adults, we may have noticed our handwriting styles changing over time because we have learned to hold our pen with a better and more comfortable grip while applying an appropriate amount of pressure.
When it comes to teaching our children to hold their pencils comfortably, it may seem like an easy task, but it actually can be a struggle. Children in the age group of 2 to 4 years will start using pencils. You can start training them around this time to hold their pencils.
When presented with crayons or pencils, toddlers are likely to grasp and use their whole fists/palms to hold crayons and use their hands and arms to draw or color; this is called a palmar grasp. You can slowly develop the palmar grasp into a tripod grip.
What is a tripod grip?
Remember your child's pediatrician asking you whether your child can pick up items using two fingers--index and thumb? Called a pincer grip, it is a foundational step to improving their pencil grip.
There's no correct or incorrect way of holding a pencil, but doctors believe that one of the better ways to handle a pencil is with a tripod grip because it offers optimal control.
A tripod pencil grip is when the pencil is held between the thumb and index finger while resting it on the middle finger.
Note that whether or not your child employs the tripod grip, it shouldn't affect the legibility of their handwriting or penmanship.1
How to develop a tripod pencil grip?
Place a pencil with its writing tip toward your child's hand. Ask them to pick up the pencil using only their index finger and thumb (pincer grip). Ask your child to flip the pencil forward without using other fingers while gripping the pencil between their index finger and thumb. Your child would pinch the pencil between their thumb and index finger and rest it on their middle finger.
If your child has difficulty using the tripod pencil grip, it's okay to employ an atypical pencil grip so long as they are comfortable.
To get better practice holding a pencil, you can break your child's crayons into one-inch pieces and ask them to color or write.
While the tripod grip is often considered the standard or most common way to hold a pencil, it isn't the only way. So let your child use any grasp they're comfortable with and get writing!
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Disclaimer: The information provided on this site is NOT medical advice and is for informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, provide medical or behavioral advice, treat, prevent, or cure any disease, condition, or behavior. You should consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding your child’s development to make a medical diagnosis, determine a treatment for a medical condition, or obtain other related advice.
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1[PDF] Pencil grasp and children's handwriting legibility during different-length writing tasks. | Semantic Scholar
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