How to Explain Memorial Day to Kids: Tips and Traditions

Memorial Day is more than just a day off from school and work; it’s a day when we honor soldiers who have died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. But trying to explain “what is Memorial Day” and “why we celebrate it” to your little one could be challenging, as they’re quite young to understand a solemn topic like this.

And while that can be a tough topic to discuss, kids should understand the importance that it’s more than a “no school” day and that Memorial Day is a day of honor for our fallen brothers and sisters, moms and dads, and should be treated with the utmost respect.

What is Memorial Day?

To start with, we need to understand the significance of Memorial Day. This day has its roots in the Civil War, but it was officially recognized as a federal holiday in 1971.¹ Since then, it has become a day of remembrance and tribute to those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.

When is Memorial Day celebrated?

Memorial Day is observed on the last Monday in May every year. It's a time to reflect on the freedom and opportunities we have because of the sacrifices of the soldiers. Memorial Day is also a time to show gratitude to the families of those who have lost loved ones while serving in the military.

Age-appropriate ways to explain Memorial Day to kids 

Explaining Memorial Day to kids can be difficult, especially if they're young. But it's important that we teach our children about this important holiday. 

Here are some tips on how to explain Memorial Day to kids:

Keep it simple

One way to introduce Memorial Day to kids is by asking them what they know about it. This can help us understand their understanding and knowledge of the holiday, which can be built upon. 

For younger children, aged between 4–7, we can simplify the term “memorial” by telling them that it means a ceremony to honor someone who has died. Show them an example of a rock or a special place in the backyard that serves as a reminder of a beloved pet that has passed away.

Use visuals

Use books, videos, and documentaries to help explain the significance of Memorial Day to children. These resources can help explain the concept of sacrifice, the role of the military in protecting our country, and the importance of remembering those who have served and died for our freedom. 

Make it relatable

Try to relate the meaning of Memorial Day to something that your child can understand. For example, you can explain that just like we celebrate a loved one's birthday, we also take a day to remember those who have died while serving our country.

Along with this, you can participate in activities and traditions that help to honor and remember our fallen heroes. 

Here are six traditions that you can start with your kids to make Memorial Day meaningful and special:

6 Memorial Day Traditions to start with kids

Attend a Memorial Day parade or service

Many cities hold Memorial Day parades or services to honor those who have served and sacrificed for our country. Attending these events can be a great way to teach your children about the day's importance.

Visit a cemetery

Take your kids to a nearby cemetery and place flowers on the graves of fallen soldiers. This can help teach your children about the importance of remembrance and paying respects to those who have served.

Make a patriotic craft

Encourage your kids to make a patriotic craft, such as a flag or a red, white, and blue wreath, to honor those who have served.

Write a Thank You letter

Have your kids write a thank you letter to a veteran or active-duty military member, expressing their gratitude for their service.

Watch a military movie

Watch a family-friendly movie that honors and celebrates the military. This can be a great way to spend time together while also learning about the sacrifices that have been made for our freedom.

Fly the flag

Displaying the American flag is a great way to show support for our troops and honor those who have sacrificed for our country. Teach your kids the proper way to display the flag and explain what it represents.

Memorial Day is a special holiday that we should take the time to teach our children about. By using age-appropriate resources, participating in traditions, and having open conversations, we can teach our little ones the importance of this significant holiday.

As Memorial Day 2023 approaches, let us remember and honor those who have sacrificed for our freedom.

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Sources:

1. History of Memorial Day | National Memorial Day Concert | PBS. (n.d.). National Memorial Day Concert - PBS. https://www.pbs .org /national -memorial- day- concert/ memorial- day /history /